The Power of Personal Appearance

 It is a very prejudiced world because we are all so9. Shirts remember, “ring around the collar” if
judged by our personal appearance. Yet others havethe dry cleaner can’t remove it, time for a new
mastered their appearance and how it affects theirshirt.
career's and personal relationships.  I would like to10. Remember what your mom always said to wear
think of it as "The Power of Personalclean underwear in case you get into an accident.
Appearance” and how it can change your life.11. Go to an upscale optical store retire those old
 If you take a look around your workplace thereglasses.
are, likely just a handful of executives who would The Inside: 
qualify for GQ or Vogue. The majority of these1. If you smoke make sure you don’t smell like
people are authentic as they have their own personalstale tobacco.
style of dress code, hairstyle, the watches they2. Smokers and heavy red wine, coffee and tea
wear and the labels that they choose to associatedrinkers use a teeth whitener.
themselves with.3. Brush your teeth twice a day and use mouthwash.
Even within your circle of friends you can tell who4. Men when shaving be clean and sideburns trim. If
draws attention to themselves by the clothing theyyou have beard keep it consistent.
wear and their style of personal grooming make the5. If you dye your hear do it routinely so you
person.don’t look that obvious. 
 Now some staunch personalities might say, ‘I6. Body odors, eliminate them buy a deodorant you
don’t need to look attractive or appealing to getare comfortable with and stick with it.
ahead’. My response would is, if you don't7. Don’t spray cologne on top of perspiring skin
worry about don’t worry about chancesnothing smells more stale.
are you won’t have to worry about getting8. Body weight, stay trim first and foremost for your
ahead.own health. Second lean is in, it is a judgmental world
In fact I was actually asked by someone who was aand as good as you may be at you job it’s the
colleague of mine (about 15 years ago), how manyman or woman that is perceived to care enough
times do I wear a shirt before I take it in for dryabout their total appearance that gets the job or
cleaning? After my initial shock, I said; "every time Idate for that matter.
wear the shirt". The came my second shock, he was9. If you have an overweight problem that you are
leaning against the wall with one arm up as the stainmanaging get clothes that compliment you and do
on the armpit of his shirt exposed itself.not tear down the image you want to portray.
 These are Exec-Guy’s rules on how to obtain10. Get into an exercise program and manage your
“The Power of Personal Appearance” youweight and physique.
can likely expand on the rules however you will get What to do next? 
the idea.1. Ask someone who you can trust to give you the
 The Outside: unvarnished truth.
1. Always wear fresh smelling clothing.2. Hire a personal style coach, for a little bit of money
2. Never wear anything twice in 48 hours unless ityou can change the view others have of you.
has been washed.3. Go to a high-end clothing store tell the style
3. Shoes polished, not torn and heels not worn down.specialist on the floor about the image you want to
4. Anyone wearing open toed shoes get pedicure,have and watch them transform you. Get lots of
you may like you digits but not everyone else will.ideas and buy nothing or what little you can.
Especially in business.4. Make changes in a subtle manner to drastic and it
5. Pants always clean and pressed a reoccurring staindraws unnecessary attention.
will be noticed and may earn you a label of sloth. As an executive everything matters even if a hair
6. Socks dark blue or black and no holes on the heelsis out of sort I don’t want to look like a mad
or toes.scientist or that I lost the fight with my pen. If you
7. Stay in tune with the times buy and wear what iswant to change your life, your career, your personal
in style.relationships start by doing an honest assessment of
8. No shame for a guy to browse GQ in theyourself. And remember the only thing holding you
bookstore.back is you.