Take Back Your Life: Prioritize Your Personal Life

y">- Home Repair Specialists (painters, handyman etc)
For some reason, Americans think they have- Errand Service
something to prove by doing it all themselves. People- Personal Shopper/Concierge
say to me all of the time, that someone else just- Nanny/Babysitter
can't do for them, the things that are on the "to do "- Car Specialists
list. Well, that is not only a ridiculous statement, but- Financial Specialists
one that can be proven wrong over and over again.Make another list of things you would like to do but
We all strive to appear in control. However, younever have time to do.
cannot be in control if you are constantly strugglingIf you successfully completed Step 7, you should
to juggle events and lists. So give up some of thenow be able to make a new list of things to do each
control. I know that is a scary thought, but do it. Byweek that include your "wants." Can you replace the
having professionals handle the items on your list, you"have to" items with the "want to" items? If you
will amaze your friends and family by having moreanswered yes, you did a great job and are well on
time to enjoy life and you will seem more in controlyour way to taking back control of your life. If you
than ever. Don't worry. We don't expect you to doanswered no, then we still have some work to do.
this cold turkey. We are going to give you tips onNow some of you are probably saying, this is easy
accomplishing this daunting task after we shock youfor her to say. Well, no it isn't. I have been where
into reality.Don't Be A Statistic!you are and it took a major life-altering situation for
Here are the facts......I think the expression is "readme to realize what is really important. Do not put
'em and weep." I know I wanted to when I sawyourself in the same situation.
these numbers.Stop now and take stock of your life and priorities.
According to the Economic Policy Institute, theYou may find that when you reprioritize you only
average U.S. family works between 105-115 hours perneed some reorganization and a little help from a life
week. So let's run the numbers.management consultant or you may have bigger
168 hours in a 7 day week x2 (if 2 people areproblems and you need to schedule time each month
working those hours) = 336for professionals to help you sift through the
Less 110 hours for workchores.Get your life back but appear more in control.
Less 112 hours for sleepingYou can do it!
Less 28 hours for eatingAdditional Information:
Less 15 hours for commutingIn this article we mentioned concierge & errand
So what's left........71 HOURS!!! That is 71 hours for bothservices as well as personal shoppers. While this
workers total. Look like a big number of hours? Keepconcept is taking hold all over the world, here is a
running the math. (If you are single that leaves youlittle more information about what each is and can do
with 35.5 hrs - cut everything in half)for you.
Now what do you have to do in that 71 hours?Errand Service - It is exactly what it says. It is a
Remember, if you are doing something as a familycompany that will do your errands for you such as
(both workers), you have to double the hours usedgroceries, prescription pickup, dry cleaning drop off
when you subtract from the 71.pick up etc. There are also many drugstores,
- Spend time with your familygroceries and dry cleaners that will deliver directly to
- Run/attend children's activities (i.e. soccer, musicyour door. Check with your local service providers.
lessons)Concierge Service - Think about what you use the
- Run errandshotel concierge for when you do an overnight stay.
- Visit friends/relatives for special occasionsWell, personal concierges do the same thing but
- Make purchases - clothing, gifts, daily needs Anyoneusually on a larger scale. They plan entertainment,
feeling exhausted yet? I am ready for a nap...ohorganize activities, make inquiries, plan travel, etc.
that's right...no time for that. Well here is some adviceMany provide business and secretarial services. Just
from the BusyB herself on taking back yourask and your wish is their command. They are
life.Remedying the Problem:master organizers. Because they are well connected
with local events and businesses, they can pound out
1. First evaluate the numbers that we provideda task in minutes where it might take you hours or
above and adjust for your particular family. Some ofdays.
you may work more than 110hrs, commute more,Personal Shoppers - Most people know the term
sleep less, etc. Also, stay at home moms count asPersonal Shopper as it relates to high-end department
working members of the family in our book so don'tstores that offer the service in-store. However,
forget that their hours count too!personal shoppers are now everywhere and offer
2. Make a list of all of the things you do that take upthe flexibility of not being tied to one particular name
the 71 remaining hours (or whatever number youstore.
now have).Record Online published an article entitled "Personal
3. Sort the tasks by type of activity. Feel free toShoppers Aren't Just for the Rich Anymore" in
make up your own categories.October of 2002.
- FamilyAnd how true this statement is! There are three
- Home Repairs/Maintenancetypes of personal shoppers and it is not by any
- Errands/Shoppingmeans geared only toward women:
- Social Activities- one who does all of your shopping for you
- School Activities- one who serves as your conscience, giving you
- Otheradvice while you shop
Star the ones you would rather not do (and sorry- one who organizes recreational shopping trips for
your job is one of those adult requirements in life sothose who just can't get enough
don't star it - you don't have a choice).A personal shopper is aware of the trends, knows
Estimate how much time it takes you to do eachabout fashion do's/dont's, and is savvy about where
task (per week).to find those special items that aren't available at the
Now make a list of all of the things that are on themall.
perpetual "to do" list that never seem to get finished.A personal shopper is able to provide you with items
Sort this list as well. Having things that are constantlywithout asking you if you want them, because he
waiting to be completed, does nothing but add stressshe understand your lifestyle and your needs.
to your life.And no it is not just about your wardrobe - it is
Now here comes the difficult part. Giving up controlanything in your life that is purchased. We have even
to get control. You are really going to have to put onknown personal shoppers who buy cars for clients.
your positive change attitude to make this work.So all in all, you, the client, custom designs the type
Ready? Circle the items that can be hired out. Theof service you require from your personal shopper.
possibilities are endless. If you are serious aboutIn the case of ON THE GO 4 U, we offer a
change, then you will not be making excuses at thiscombination of these services, as do several other
point as to why someone else cannot do the job. Dofirms around the country. We provide you with the
NOT, use money as an excuse at this point. Youultimate life management experience. We can
can't afford to do that. This is your life you areorganize as much or as little of your life as you
talking about. Here are some suggestions:require.
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