| p>Dating, according to the dictionary means: "to go | | | | well as ridding yourself of negative people. |
| out socially with another person, often out of | | | | Ladies, if you truly desire to "get out there" and trust |
| romantic interest", however, in order to get there, | | | | me, I know from personal experience, it's daunting |
| here a few things to go over. | | | | and scary but if you really want to allow someone |
| Dating today is not the same as it was 20 or 30 | | | | into your life then you must take the necessary |
| years ago. We are now a culmination of our | | | | steps to get there even before you even meet |
| experiences and wisdom gained and we must | | | | anyone! And that leads us to the last phase. |
| evaluate even before we embark upon "dating" the | | | | Desire, I love that word! It is a yearning sensation; it |
| "pre-dating" preparations that are needed to truly | | | | isn't the same as wanting or needing. The desire to |
| make the most of our upcoming experiences. | | | | meet someone, the desire to eat that chocolate bar, |
| Words of wisdom: Remember, until you become the | | | | the desire to change jobs, whenever I say that word |
| person you are looking for, you will not attract the | | | | it some how puts more emphasis on whatever it is I |
| kind of person you want. | | | | desire. |
| Here are a few things that are imperative to | | | | Have you ever really thought of the difference, as |
| "pre-dating": | | | | there is one...Needing and wanting is not the same |
| A personal makeover! You deserve it! While we took | | | | thing...The Rolling Stones say it best..."You can't |
| the time to heal, maybe we "let ourselves go". So | | | | always get what you want but you get what you |
| now's the ideal time to get to the hairdresser, change | | | | need" |
| your color, hairstyle, are you daring enough? Do it | | | | A need is something you require. Food, shelter, |
| today! Take a serious look at your wardrobe: are you | | | | money to survive. |
| suffering from being stuck in the 80's? Get a few | | | | Wanting is closer to desire. You want affection, you |
| new outfits, some jewelry, maybe a hat! | | | | want a better job, you want to find love, you want |
| Remember, you never have a 2nd chance to make a | | | | to better yourself. You don't "need" love, or to |
| 1st impression. | | | | better yourself, nor do you need affection or a |
| The next thing is your self confidence. By doing the | | | | better job. You want it! Wanting lacks the yearning, |
| makeover this will boost your confidence to a higher | | | | that brings us to desire. Desire is that burning, |
| level, coupled with the fact (I hope) you've already | | | | yearning sensation that is deep within us that makes |
| embarked upon the road of "attaining your new | | | | things happen. |
| desires, cleansed your soul, healed from your pain, as | | | | Are you ready? |