Is Your Style in Crisis Mode?

It's so easy to get into a rut with your look. If• Do you have eyeglass frames from 5-10 years
you've gained weight or gone through a major lifeago or longer?
situation, or had the kid's schedules to deal withAs you can see there are many things that you may
before your own, it can happen faster than you canbe unaware you're doing that need a little tweaking.
say frumpy. People often think no one is looking atSo what to do if you recognize yourself on the list?
them, and it doesn't matter how they look. TheOr if you just know you need to do something but
common thinking seems to be that it's easier todon't know where to start? Let me offer a few
throw on a big t-shirt and some jean shorts and flipsuggestions. Decide your highest priority first. Would
flops and walk out the door, than to take the timeit be your work attire, or your dating style or your
to look pulled together.casual off work look that is calling for the most
Lack of attention to what you wear and how youattention? If it's everything then still just pick one
put yourself together will age you faster than almostfocus at first. It's a process.
anything. On the other hand, a little attention to yourOnce you decide where to start, you have to
style will take the years off and up the "hot" factorcommit to revamping all the way. A few new outfits
faster and less painfully than anything else available, ifwon't look right if your hair is still in a ponytail and a
you address the key areas. Do you need to updatescrunchy. So get your most stylish friend to
your look? Let's find out.recommend the best hairstylist and colorist he or she
• Does everything in your wardrobe matchknows, book a consultation and let them do what
perfectly?they do best. Read some style books, I like "How
• Is extreme comfort the driving force in yourNot to Look Old, by Charla Krupp and Style Rx by
look?Bridgette Raes. And there are plenty for men to
• Have you worn the same foundation for years?choose from as well. I like Details for men, from the
• Do you still outline your lips with dark liner orMagazine Details. These books are invaluable for their
your eyes with cobalt blue?inspiration and ideas.
• Do you wear stockings with sandals or fleshFinally, invite your friends to help you try on clothes
colored pantyhose.in front of a full length mirror (this is a must have)
• Have you ever had your teeth whitened?and move out anything that doesn't work well on
• Are your skirts too long, covering your greatyou any longer. If you think this would be like the
legs?blind leading the blind, hire a personal stylist to guide
• Do you wear mostly black, white and beige oryou. If you find the right stylist for you, it will be right
just black?up there with the best investment you ever made in
• Do you feel color and pattern are NOT for you?yourself. Because you can go from fair to fabulous
• Do you hide your curves in shapeless clothing, orright before your very own eyes, and look better
wear your clothes too big?than you ever thought you could, right now. Style
• Do you wear only flats and or man sandals?rut? Not anymore!