| If you are a perennial cheater, you will find yourself | | | | to make up for your mistake? You need to use this |
| asking how long you should wait to go after your ex | | | | as bargaining power to show that she can expect |
| girlfriend after cheating on her. There is no prescribed | | | | improvement and not end up in the same quagmire |
| amount of time, however, because this would | | | | again. You need to take some time and go through a |
| depend on many things. Here are some things to | | | | period of personal makeover. |
| ponder as you go on your quest to get your ex | | | | 3) You also need to know if you are ready to work |
| back. | | | | things out in the first place. It better not be a |
| 1) The amount of time you both were together. It is | | | | compulsion arising from mere emotion. Are there |
| harder for her to swallow if you had been together | | | | limits to where you are willing to play the ball? Have |
| for a long time. This is because there was a bigger | | | | your stand written down and be firm. She has to |
| expectation that you were more bound to her. It will | | | | make some sacrifices too, if it will help the |
| also take an equal proportion of time for your ex to | | | | relationship. You are only trying to display that you |
| forgive you. You therefore need to give her | | | | have things in order in your side of the relationship. |
| breathing space before you immediately show up on | | | | This is a necessary requirement if you are going to |
| her doorstep. | | | | get back together. |
| 2) What things have you tried to change in your life | | | | |