A Second Chance for a First Impression

You've certainly heard the adage that you don't gethenceforth asked to make humorous modeling videos
a second chance to make a good first impression.after everyone else was allowed out in public. We
What if there was a way to create the environmentwalked through the front doors of the Banana
for a makeover of that original first impression?Republic and they asked me to narrate the entire
About every six months a marketing research firmexperience. I opted for my incognito voice as if the
contacts me. I started going to their location a few'crew' and me weren't attracting enough customer
years ago for studies on topics like teashops, men'sattention.
television viewing habits and underarm deodorant. IAfter Banana Republic and a stop at a redesigned
have since been promoted to the in-home cameraand disappointing Gap, we sat down at a local
interview. Six months ago I gave a detailed accountStarbucks where I was asked to play 'guess the
how the maker's of the Centrum multi-vitamin couldclothing brand.' They must have had too much
be more creative in their marketing efforts. I lookedcaffeine and thought I was a former retail executive
straight into the camera and said, "What if Centrumwho could give them the 'holy grail' answer on how
could be shrunk inside the body and went on ato make the best men's casual pants. I guessed a
voyage much like the ship in that 1960's movie,few top brands for the clothing I saw, but was
"Fantastic Voyage?"wrong on all counts. It was revealed to me that
I must have made a good first impression. This timeDockers was making this hip new clothing. I was
they sent a four-person interview team to do ashocked! I have an image of Dockers being this
study about men's pants. I had a cameraman, angeneric brand of men's pants that are worn on casual
interviewer, and two 'observers' or perhaps mentaldays to the office. I even went so far as to say
health evaluators. We spoke about how I purchasethat the name Dockers reminds me of those sailing
men's pants and the qualities I seek. Some of theshoes, Docksiders. Docksiders are no fashion icon
questions were a little myopic for my taste, but Ieither.
pressed on for curiosity's sake. Ok, getting paid forNext the two casual observers were revealed to be
the study had something to do with the motivationexecutives of Dockers, one being the Director of
to keep going too. After a good hour of questionsRetailing. I was asked if I would give Dockers another
the entire crew wanted to see my small closet. It's achance. Looking back I should have asked for a free
good thing my Mother taught me to keep my closetpair or pants too. First I was impressed that people
tidy. I narrated the clothes in my closet; their historyfrom the company wanted to meet with members
and how they are arranged as if I was doing a travelof the public instead of waiting behind closed doors
show to attract off-season tourists. Next, I had tofor the marketing research report. These executives
pull out all of my casual pants and trousers and putwere hearing from me and dozens of people across
them on the bed. The 'crew' wanted to film themthe country first hand. Second they really seemed to
and see everything in one pile. "Hey I thought I wasbe sincere and valued my opinion. They asked
the star!"meaningful questions and listened. There was not any
One of the observing women wanted me to put onhint of defensiveness although they could always
an outfit that I would wear to a client for an initialview the video and shout obscenities at me in
meeting. I didn't realize that I had to do a fashionabsentia. From what I saw in the Dockers'
show on top of the closet invasion! I changed intophotographs, I was intrigued enough with their new
one of my new suits and a crisp blue shirt and'look' to put them on my list of places to visit for my
sweater. The video camera kept rolling, as did a stillnext purchase of casual pants.
camera. I was beginning to think that this crew wasHow can you change the initial impression you make?
a front for 'America's Extreme Wardrobe Makeover.'When I work with executives on their presentation
My next task was to put on an outfit that wasskills we often use the lessons employed by the
reminiscent of a second or third client appointment. IDockers executives. If you made a terrible first
had no idea were this was going, but I was going toimpression or want to significantly improve the one
kick them out of the house if they wanted me toyou currently have, you need to do the following,
don my pajamas. I put on a pair of trousers and(1) Meet in person - this tells your customers,
another button down shirt. The cameras kept rolling.prospects or even friends that you think they are
The crew looked at the time and said, "We need toimportant,
hurry to the Banana Republic and Gap stores around(2) Ask thoughtful questions - when you ask relevant
the corner to do some 'on the fly' shopping beforequestions it shows that your effort was well thought
the end of the study.out. Spending time preparing equates to a greater
Driving to the store, I was wondering when myfeeling of worth on the part of others,
video clip would show up on or another website. I(3) Listen without judgment - in order to value
haven't had this much fun in front of the cameraanother person's opinion fully, we must listen without
since I was in my high school modeling club. Backmaking an opinion,
then I was filmed advertising an umbrella. I twirled it(4) Present a united front - you need to know what
around my arm and before it made a completeyou stand for consistently in order for others to
revolution, I smacked myself in the face. A fewrespect you, and
seconds later I opened it up, tripped and fell to the(5) Be patient - it takes time to change an initial first
floor since I couldn't see where I was going. I wasimpression. It might take months or years.